tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4566785279148781067.post6196295306746707585..comments2023-08-15T04:02:28.195-07:00Comments on Getting There: Februarynhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08579146100268312887noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4566785279148781067.post-37651662580437922152012-02-17T09:28:21.026-08:002012-02-17T09:28:21.026-08:00Here via Stirrup-Queens. There is so much in this ...Here via Stirrup-Queens. There is so much in this post I could have written myself. We didn't get very far down the ART path before deciding adoption would be a better option for us, and I love my two little boys with all my heart, but I still find myself haunted by loss. Infertility was heartbreaking, as are the circumstances that break bio-families apart, but so is the idea of life without my Pooh-bear and Tigger. And to wish away the former two is to wish away the latter. I find myself wanting to exist in two universes simultaneously - to experience what might have been but still keeping the life I have now.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11998288317189612155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4566785279148781067.post-22111882850340984102012-02-16T09:53:37.035-08:002012-02-16T09:53:37.035-08:00Parenting my boys hasn't "cured" my ...Parenting my boys hasn't "cured" my IF woes. Because, relaly, it isn't our kids' responsibility to make us happy, is it? I think IF and loss continue with us, lessening some maybe as time goes on. But they've had such a huge impact on our lives, changing dramatically the life we thought we'd have. They aren't going to just go away. I know you know all that. I just needed to say you're not alone in this :)Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07614553637265139846noreply@blogger.com